What if..

What if you lost someone. Someone whom guided you through life. Someone whom you’ve learned from and respect. What would you do?

Would you be lost? Loosing a teacher that taught you life. Guided you all the way. Been with you during your ups and downs. Always there to comfort you, support you. What if they’re not there anymore? Would you go all ’emo’ and give up life? Or.
Would you get stronger, knowing that they would want they best for you. They wouldn’t and didn’t give up on you, so you shouldn’t too.

Losing someone is part and parcel of life. How we react depends on how we see it. Just know that they are in a better place now. There, they can watch over us 24/7. You won’t always see them, or rather you can’t see them, but theyll always be with you. Always.

Getting over them doesn’t mean you forgot about them, it just means you’ve placed them deep down inside. In a place where they are always there. You remember the times spent with them. Memories. Recalling them. Loving them.

Don’t give up on life just because you lost someone dear. That someone still lives, inside. They want you to smile all the way. Every tear you shed, every laugh you give, every word you say, they know. Because they are with you all the way. πŸ™‚

Give Thanks

You’ll never know what happens tomorrow. Who knows, maybe you’ll get hurt, get fired, get looked down, fall in love, meet a new friend, find your favourite book, or even eating your last meal. You’ll never know.

For all you know, having a meal, bathing, brushing your teeth, attending school/having a job. If you have these, you’re already better of than more than 1/4 of the world’s population.

We always complain about not having enough food, complaining about our parents, getting jealous of others having something you don’t. Typical right? Jealousy is part and parcel of life. Who doesn’t get jealous? But, have you thought about what you already have?

Having parents, both or one. Many people don’t appreciate them. They brought you up. They gave you food. They were your first teachers. They are your closest kin. They were your first playmate, friend. Don’t only appreciate them once they’re not here. Say it once, remember it always. Love your parents? Show them. Not everyone still has their parents with them. No matter how old you are, theres always time to say β€œI LOVE YOU“. Don’t have the guilt of later saying `I should have told them earlier…’. You’ll never know, you might see them today, and the next thing you know, they’re gone.

β€œWhy can’t I look like her/him?”, β€œWhy can’t I be born into a richer family?”, β€œI should lose weight, fit their expectations”…. Even if you never said it before, you can’t deny that you would have thought about it at least once before, such a comment. Right? As humans, we will never be satisfied. Once we achieve something, we would want more. Right? Sometimes it’s a good thing. Sometimes. But often because of these, we tend to neglect some things, important things, in our life. Don’t you all say YOLO? Then why would you want to waste your time to be β€œperfect” when you’re perfectly fine from the start? Because we only live once, that’s why we should live it to the fullest. Love yourself, this life. What you are now, is what you are. You can be what you want in your next life (heh..), you’ll be someone new then. So. Be yourself, don’t ve someone you’re not. πŸ˜€

As I said at the start, we’ll never know what will happen tomorrow. So treasure this day, live it as your last.

β€œYesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift from God, which is why we call it the present.” – Bill Keane

Why

Why…Is it so hard to give birth to a life, but so easy to take a life away?

Why… Is it so easy to smile in front of others but so hard to cry in front of them?

Why… Is it so easy to start a relationship but so hard to end it?

Why… Is it so easy to create a wound but so hard to mend it?

Why.. Is it so easy to say ‘I love you’ but so hard to really mean it?

Why… Is it so easy to hurt others but so hard to say ‘I’m sorry’?

Why?

Happiness

Happy. Everyone would be happy at least once in their lives. Happiest moments? Maybe getting married to their loves one? Seeing their children find love? Watching their kid playing? Or maybe simply being able to sleep through the whole morning and be awake cause you want to.

Well, happiness is when you are doing something you like. Being able to travel, or getting your dream job. Happiness can be simple, only if you imagine it well. Someone who only craves for riches and fortunes can only get artificial happiness. Those who are really happy, are those who lead a simple and fulfilling life. Doing what they like and whats best, what’s right.

Happiness is doing something that may benefit others instead of yourself. Love. Seeing someone you like loving someone else, is pain. But knowing that he/she is currently happy because they found their partner, one should be happy for them. Love may not be being with them physically, but supporting them emotionally.

Happiness is relieving those times where you live your life. Those times free of stress and burdens. The times where nothing seemed too much for you to handle.

Happiness is knowing your close ones are always by your side, and your always on theirs. No matter what hardships you may face, they still stick to your like caramel toffee, only leaving your once your flavoured the taste.

Happiness. Can be found with a single action, a smile, a greeting, care, love, joy, compassion. Spreading the joy out to others with a simple hug.

A hug. It can do amazing things. It makes us feel as if we know that there is someone always there for us.
A hug of happiness, knowing that they are celebrating for you, sharing the same happiness wiyh you.
A hug of sadness, knowing that they are there for you, comforting you whenever you need.
A hug of anger, knowing that somethings don’t go as well as planned, but they still care for you.
A hug of random, knowing that everyone needs love, at any point of the day.

Happiness, cue the smiles. πŸ˜€

Daily Dose Of Life #1

I was out today with Β couple of friends, and i couldn’t help but notice the amount of couples at the mall together.

So, i was reminded of the couples in my school, my thought was that, will they marry the person they are currently dating?

I mean, most of them were probably their firsts, at least, the friends of mine. So, since i know both parties, will it be awkward if (IF, unfortunately) they break up? I mean, some are cool with it, you know, still are friends after the break-up, occasionally joking about it or bringing it up. But, there are others who, well, don’t take it so well. Suddenly they become strangers and all, turning away once they see the other. Isn’t it weird? Won’t it be weird? Like, they liked/loved each other for a period of time, but after a short period, they become strangers. HONESTLY. I don’t know, cause erm.. heh.. i’ve never been in a relationship before. I understand under some circumstances, maybe… erm.. ok. Actually i don’t. IDK love ok…

Since i’m on this topic……..geez……..why not mention my crush? πŸ˜›

Sooo…. there’s this guy, we are currently in the same class for the second year running πŸ™‚ BUT. I’ve kinda, maybe, perhaps, kinda had a crush on him since like 3 years back? I didn’t know him then, and he didn’t know me. We simply took the same bus to school. He kinda caught me attention? XP and 2 years ago, when i knew that he was in my class i was like… sjdfsnfoadsnkfndsogjoerhgjfdklnvfds. GOSH. SPAAZZZZIINNGGGG. They had a list of people who are in the same class, i pathetically didn’t know his name THEN. SOOOOOO, imagine the shock i had when i saw him in the same room as me πŸ˜€ His like quite tall? THIN man(jealous…) and had pale skin. Initially i don’t know him like really, other than the bus he took i don’t know anything bout it. THEN, fate decides to play with me. The teacher placed us a table partners !!!!!!!!! :O:O IKR. so we sat beside each other for like 3-4 months? Me, being socially awkward, and to add on i had a crush on himmm, we didn’t really talk much. But still knew each others name and talk for like a while each day πŸ™‚ This year, we aren’t table partners, and it did not, i mean DID NOT help that his table partner is a like, you know, pop, aka beauty. And unfortunately, my seat is able to see them clearly. … Geez. Compared to seating with me he’s like 100x more hyper and talks more…………………………………………………………………. Jealous is an understatement.. Honestly, no one knows about my crush XP not even my best bud. heh. Cause i wasn’t you know sure of stuff….

Any advice appreciated always.. πŸ™‚